uthorities encourage ‘playing doctor’
A [German] federal institution subordinate to the Ministry for Family Affairs has published a pamphlet urging fathers to engage in “massaging sexual organs” of their daughters
„Fathers do not devote enough attention to the clitoris and vagina of their daughter. Their caress too seldom pertains to these regions, while this is the only way the girls can develop a sense of pride from their sex” – this is a quotation from „Love, body and playing doctor” - a brochure published by the [German] Federal Health Education Center (BZgA). The publication is addressed to parents of children aged 1-3 years old.
According to the pamphlet authors, it is important for a healthy development of the child that her father shows how proud he is of the fact that she is a girl. It is best, when he does that using his hands: „The child touches all parts of their father’s body, sometimes arousing him. The father should do the same.”
The brochure also informs that mothers often give their child’s penis a pet name, whereas a girl’s sexual organs don’t get affectionate names. As a result, girls starts to think they are worse than boys. That is why fathers should think of affectionate names for their daugther’s vagina, for example calling it „a pot of honey”.
The pamhplet authors advice parents to allow „unlimimted masturbation” of the child: „If a girl inserts objects to her vagina, the parent should intervene only if there is a risk that she hurts herself, for example when the lips of her vagina are swollen from rubbing against an armchair. Then you have to tell the child not to hurt herself further, at the same time explaining that stimulating the genital organs is all right.”
„No” to inhibitions
Masturbation and touching genital organs by the parents is supposed to prevent sexual inhbitions of the child in their adulthood: „Children should learn that there is no such thing as shameful parts of the body. The body is a home, which you should be proud of.”
Songs about vagina
BZgA also has good advice for parents of slightly older kids. Recently, the office published a manual about the sexual development of kindergarten kids. In it, parents can read that imitating copulation moves is recommended for a 4-year-old’s development.
Together with the manual, the office sends out a book of songs, including „Nose, belly and bottom”. One of the songs reads: „When I touch my body, I discover what I have. I have a vagina, because I am a girl. Vagina is not only for peeing. When I touch it, I feel a pleasant tingle.”
The BZgA bruchure is an obligatory read in nine German lands. It is used for training nursery, kindergarten and elementary school teachers. It is recommended by many organizations oficially fighting pedophilia, such as the German Kunderschutzbund. BZgA, which is a formal subordinate of the Ministry for Family Affairs, sends out millions of copies of the 40-pages brochure every year.
Perverted mind
Different opinions can be found on various German internet fora. „Appaling”, „perverted” and „shocking” – is how internet users react most often.
Pshychologists have similar opinions. – This is a pathological view on reality. Children should not be educated about it in such a way. You have to have a perverted mind to write something like that – one clinical psychology lecturer of the Catholic University of Lublin told „Rzeczpospolita”.
BZgA refutes the accusations. – Children are sexual beings and all the time they seek to fulfill their needs – BZgA official Eckhardt Scheffer told „Rzeczpospolita”. – It is not the parents that allow it who are bad, but those who find it wrong
*stolzbin*
Aber mehr ist nie draus geworden... Und sonst war ich eher ein nachzügler. Also in den folgenden Jahren. so richtig geil war ich da nicht, eher schön wohlig angenehm und so. 
